sexymagickdesires April 29th, 2004
1. how old are you?
2. what color is your hair?
3. what do you do for a living?

i'm inquisitive today

dirtyboy April 29th, 2004
1. 39
2. Dark brown and messy - that one's in my minimal profile, but no, I never read them either...
3. I'm going to duck and dive on this one - this blog is so explicit and open and describes real things that I've done, so I'm careful not to reveal too much about myself personally.
Oh dear - I'm clearly going to be rubbish at this answering questions malarkey! Hopefully I'll do better on the next ones...

sexymagickdesires April 29th, 2004
ok..to make up for not answering the 3rd question, here's another question:

are you ever going to finish the story about katie?

dirtyboy April 30th, 2004
Yes, definitely - I've started the next part two or three times, but it's got to the really explicit stuff now, and that night was such a turn on for me that I've found myself unable to get more than a couple of sentences written before I have to bring myself to orgasm. But yes, I definitely will.

remittance girl May 04th, 2004
1. Are there good ways to tell if someone is going to be a good cybersex parter for you?
2. Are there good ways to tell they are going to be awful at it?
3. What are the most important things in making it successful?

dirtyboy May 04th, 2004
ooo - more questions - here goes...

1. I find it really difficult, sometimes you just have to suck it and see (if you'll pardon the expression). If you read a few of my cybers in here, you'll see the way I like to play, but when meeting someone in a chatroom I find it really tricky to tell. I usually try talking to them for a while first, and if the conversation flows and we get on (and especially if there's some humour), I usually can tell from that whether cyber will work. It really comes down to - do I like them, are they flirting nicely, do they seem like they might have a fun imagination, and if it seems right, I'll give it a go (assuming the girl is up for it too). I tend to like to chat for quite a while first, if only to completely satisfy myself that they're female!
2. Generally, if the spelling and grammar is atrocious, and the first thing they say is "I want to do it hard up your arse" (or words to that effect), my advice is to ignore them! Look for cyber-partners the same way you'd look for a real one - if you like them, then it might be worth trying to cyber, if that's the way the conversation goes.
3. For me, I like it very descriptive and dirty, and paying attention to what the other one is doing, and responding to it. Also the longer the better - I like to come whilst cybering, and especially like the girl to come too, so I usually hold back as long as I can, lots of foreplay, really drawing out the sex, until she just has to come - and as she reaches orgasm, I do too. So lots of 'listening' and imagination, and preferably masturbating as the cyber progresses, all the way to orgasm - that's how I like it.

If you like the way I play, and have enjoyed reading the cybers I've posted, feel free to drop me a line and we could give it a go, it's something I love to do, and you're clearly a fan of cyber too - we could start with a chat and take it from there if you're in the mood some time - my email address:

[email protected]

dirtyboy May 04th, 2004
...and by the way - thankyou for linking me x.
I'll be having a dip into your blog myself over the next day or two...

remittance girl May 05th, 2004
Roger:
Thanks for the very thorough answers to the questions. I'm actually thinking of doing a masters on something very akin to this subject, so I'm very grateful when someone actually gives this sort of an aswer.

Regarding playing - I think you might want to actually read some of the blog - I'm slightly... strange that way, before offering your very kind services ;-). By the way, it's not really a blog; it's more like a blog-novel - so you have to start at the first post and read forward.

DitryTalkinGirl May 05th, 2004
1. Do you use porn and if so, what is your favourite kind and why?
2. Have you had a threesome and if so, would you describe it please?
3. Where women are concerned, what do you think is your most attractive quality?

dirtyboy May 06th, 2004
remittance girl: a masters degree in cybersex? well at least the research will be fun! feel free to email me if you want more detailed replies about anything specific. And yes, I've read the first half of your novel - I'm not really into BDSM, but it's intelligent and very erotic - wonderfully written - I came very hard reading the April 22nd entry, so it clearly had the desired effect...

dirtyboy May 06th, 2004
DTG - some replies for you:
1. Yes I do, though I don't really have a favourite. Audio erotica is one of my favourites at the moment I guess - I love being able to use my imagination whilst listening to the girl come - but I love all types of porn really.
2. Sadly no, but I think about it all the time!
3. I have no idea! Possibly my rogueish good looks lol.